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by SUNSHINE from Detroit, Michigan

I went to Jamaica to check out the local jewelry making techniques. I was prepared to hire a older Jamaican women to sponser as an employee in my new company. When I went to the bead market to inquire about assistance I was introduced to the most handsome man I have ever met. He was kind and patient. Sex and money did not enter our relationship. When we got to know each other. I was in love. We have been married for four months now. I am as committed to him as he is to me. We talk to each other everyday on the phone. True love can enter into the most unusual pictures. Sometime you just have to follow your heart.

Whats good for the goose with more fringe benefit for the locals.

by The Princess dc from Jamaica WI living in New York

I do not see anything wrong with it, its two consenting adults and if she is happy and he is happy whats wrong. Actually I think the local women should get up some courage and do the same with the male tourist if the rewards are great. If you have what it takes, a strong self esteem and the price is right go for it, but don't sell yourself short and you must be able to stop when you want to and not let it become addictive to the point of no return. Think of it as gaining some experience and having fun for the right price. Make good use of the money and then quit.

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by Jamaica Guest

Dirty, filthy, disgusting people with no morals. Just because their revolting behavior feels good to them they think it is right to behave in such a dirty way. no wonder we have so much disease around the world. What kind of message are you all sending out to the world. And the worst thing about it all some of you say you don't pay for it, just so that it makes you all feel better, pay for it or not it still makes you all sluts and prostitutes male and female. It is not the paying for it that matters it is your attitude and behavior. One of these days God is going to put a stop to all you fornicators male and female. No wonder so many people cannot bring up their children properly, and don't expect them to behave any better. As a female Iam disgusted by all you peoples behavior. Don't get me wrong Iam no Angel but I can honestly say to you all I have never ever behaved in such a manner. You might all say bully for you, come on people think about what you are doing. Think about what you are doing to those people and their countries. You are all being selfish, I have noticed that it is mostly in developing countries where you all carry on with wild abandon, God is watching and believe me he is very real. Iam not judging you, Iam just helping you see that what you are doing to these people and their countries and yourselves is very wrong, behavior like yours affect the society Ilive in. You all might think Iam not hurting anyone, but you are

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by Doug from Florida

Lets face it, when we're older, we all want sex with whomever we want and we fit it into our schedule when we want it. I am personally willing to pay for that privilege. I have travelled to all parts of the world and have participated in the sex trade, but never forced any one to have sex with me or visited a organized crime brothel. The women I met were locals under normal conditions with pleasant, mutual interests with respectful, romantic girlfriend experience in mind. That is what makes a tropical vacation holiday FANTASTIC! I even have a young college Coed for occasional interludes here in my hometown. I compensate her for it and she enjoys it immensely as well as myself. Face it folks, having sex with the same person day after day gets boring really fast. The happiest people I see aren't the married people, it's the singles!

Luv Jamaica!

by Lia from UK

I am a British black woman and I went to Jamaica last year for the first time and I was amazed at the amount of attention I got. In Jamaica they call me beautiful and queenie, in England I might as well be invisible. I love Jamaica the sun the warmth of the people fresh food music everything I love it so much that I am planning on living there for good. After experiencing Jamaica I can't stay in England.

What's Good For The Goose...

by Rick from New England

I don't see any reason why "equal opportunity" should not extend to the fairer sex...
After all, what's good for the goose, is good for the gander...
Go for it!!!
Too bad the ladies have to travel to such far flung locations of the world, for what men are able to get locally...
New York seems to be a more convenient location from a travelers stand point...
Rick - prmathewson@optonline.net

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by Reuben from Nassau Bahamas

I really wanted a young Jamaican wife, but what I got instead was a 24 year old girl who needed to send money back to Jamaica as often as possible, and was eager to make as many friendships with as many men as she felt she could get away with. I began to feel as if i was paying other guys sex bills. Of course i left her high and dry as far as the immigration status matters were concerned.

Sun, Sea and Sex Discussion

by Jamaica Guest

It's OK, know one is getting hurt, the ladies or having sex and guys get to make a few bucks. If you guys (USA) would gave these beautiful older ladies what they want, the trips to jamaica would stop. Ladies, be careful and have fun.

2x Jamaican

by MsJ from Pittsburgh, PA

Recently returning from Jamaica I guess YOU would say I was involved with sex tourism. I don't see it that way. Traveling alone, late 40's I was there for relaxation. I was approached by a younger, good looking worker at the resort. Money, favors etc never ever came up. He called me several times while I was there after our first night together to "come and see ME." I didn't have a problem with it. He said, the locals would call me a White Liver. (an insatiable person) I feel I was the one getting what I wanted - free of charge. By all accounts this would look like prostitution on the surface, but because no money, favors etc were exchanged I think the tables were turned and the player got played because I never gave up anything except myself and its because I wanted to. I have his contact info and he asked for mine and asked for the right info not the wrong - go figure. I've heard from him since my return, but trust me, I will not pay for sex. I hope I never have to.

My 1st encounter was on a 7-day cruise. Encounter was with a Jamaican as well. We spent 6 of the 7 days having wonderful sex which I never paid for, was never asked to pay for and we are still in contact today. That was in 1998. In fact I saw him while in Ochi this past month. If you have to pay to play the choice is by all means yours, but thank God I don't have to because I don't think I would do it.

Usually after a few days they drop their guard and you can see the real person if you are being real with them. They are human and just doing what they feel they have to do. Do you blame them? I don't. If you can get paid, do it.

I like to believe some people just attract or connect and its truly beautiful. On the other hand I can see where these men need to get paid for making a lonely woman feel good. They are good at it too. At least the two I was with were. Fortunately for me my self esteem is in tact and I am not a lonely person. I love living life (safe sex) and enjoy being with beautiful people and I think the vibe is mutually felt.

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