GAY & LESBIAN TRAVELERS

Jamaica is an adamantly homophobic nation. Homosexual intercourse between men is illegal, and antigay hysteria is a staple of musical lyrics. Homosexuality is a subject that evokes extreme reactions among Jamaicans, and it is difficult to hold a serious discussion on the topic.

Most Jamaican gays are still in the closet. Nonetheless, many hoteliers are gay or gay-tolerant, and you should not be put off from visiting the island. Just don't expect to be able to display your sexuality openly without an adverse reaction.

WOMEN TRAVELERS

Attitudes Toward Women

'Political correctness' hasn't yet filtered down from the educated Jamaican middle class to the male masses. Many Jamaican men display behavior and attitudes that might shock visiting women, often expressing disdain for the notion of female equality or women's rights. Rape is possible in Jamaica, and occasionally involves female.

If you're single, it will be assumed that you're on the island seeking a 'likkle love beneat' de palms.' Any remonstration to the contrary will likely be met with wearying attempts to get you to change your mind. Black women can expect to hear a 'roots' trip.

If you go along with the flirting, don't expect a Jamaican man to understand if you've no intent of going all the way. Your innocent acceptance will be taken as a sign of acquiescence. The Jamaican male has a fragile ego and is likely to react strongly to feeling like a fool. Don't beat about the bush for fear of hurting the man's feelings.

Many foreign women welcome these advances, as evidenced by the proliferation of 'rent-a-Rastas' - semiprofessional good-time guys, or gigolos - on the arms of North American and European women. Most often, the man is excited more by your economic clout than your looks - a foreign catch brings status and the possibility for wheedling some cash. You'll be the moneybags in any romantic encounter.

Many younger, poorer Jamaican women also hold a stereotypical image of foreign females and resent what they see as poaching of their men. A clear exception is in Kingston, where thousands of educated professional women live a cosmopolitan lifestyle and are less tethered by the hardships of raising children in dire economic circumstances. Such women range more freely throughout society and more fully engage with foreigners as equals.

Discuss This Article (Gay & Lesbian)

To Daniel from Poland

by Aaron from London

It is one thing for any old person to bash a country with a rich, diversified culture, which incidentely does have a good education system and way of life, but it is quite another for a Polish person to do so.

It strikes me how Polish people appear to have such a strife against black people. You people need to look in the mirror. The education system in Poland is third world, your labour system is a complete joke; the reason why you ugly brutes emigrate and ... [read more]

Hmmm

by Alisha from Minneapolis, USA

I am a lesbian woman and really would just like to go on vacation and visit a rich culture and enjoy the beautiful surroundings. I don't expect to be protected but I don't want to hesitate out of fear.

But really - hate is hate -- none of it is justified.

I am disappointed about the postings below and will seriously consider vacationing somewhere else - just for safety. Who knows... I guess I will check out Puerto Rico.

To Daniel

by Kim from NYC

To Daniel who calls Jamaicans "so dumb and uneducated?". Now isn't that, to use your words, an "intolerant uneducated" comment. U've never been to Jamaica I'm sure, nor have met a Jamaican. And anyway, why do u want to fight hate with hate. U're words were poisonous and bitter. Would u like it if someone said that the Nazi's should take over Poland again and put everyone in conc. camps?! How intolerant and ignorant does that sound!
Daniels quote: "I think it's ... [read more]